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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Rob Duncan wrote: > "Michael" <muirh…@haidagwaii.net> wrote in message > news:MLednSgOyNrUONTfRVn-og@qcislands.net… >> Cowboy wrote: >>> The solution should be non-controversial. We’re not talking about >>> potential Vioxxes that will be widely used by generally healthy >>> people. We’re talking about treatments for dying patients. So let’s >>> have legislation mandating that the FDA grant access to these drugs >>> as soon as they show anti-cancer activity. >> Ah, but that *is* controversial. >> Cannabis has shown good anti-brain-cancer activity… but that’s a >> medical benefit, which is something the US government has decreed >> cannabis does not have – in much the same way as (and using the same >> reasoning with which) the Church of Rome declared that the earth did >> not orbit the sun. Way better to leave sick people to die in agony >> despite the >> possibility of effective treatment than for government to admit that >> it’s been completely full of shit for nearly 70 years. > Where is the US governments decree that Cannabis doesnt have any > medical benefit?  They clearly wanted to make it legal for Marinol to > be sold,

That isn’t the case, nor was it necessary to legalize anything to do with the plant, because marinol is a fully lab-synthesized chemical, not a plant extract. > not to mention the most effective emergancy brain damage > medication in the world, used for traumatic brain injurty, is made of > marijauna and is in EVERY emergancy room in the entire nation.  So, > Im unsure of your point. Our government clearly wanted those > marijauna medications made available. Not to mention the millions who > are on it whos States allow it. > Where is this decree?  Just curious.

Do you mean where besides in US federal law and the Act of Congress that put it there? On Monday, May 14, 2003, the United States Supreme Court dealt a blow to organizations that grow or distribute medical marijuana to sick people, holding that such organizations may not raise a medical-necessity defense to charges of violating the federal prohibition on marijuana. According to the Court, by placing marijuana in Schedule I of the Controlled Substances Act–the schedule that is the most restrictive possible–Congress determined that marijuana has "no currently accepted medical use." The only exception to the strict prohibition on growing or distributing marijuana, said the court, is for government-approved research projects. Writing for the majority, Justice Clarence Thomas stated that by expressly determining that marijuana has no accepted medical use, Congress foreclosed a medical-necessity defense by an organization that grows or distributes marijuana to sick people: "It is clear from the text of the [Controlled Substances] Act that Congress has made a determination that marijuana has no medical benefits worthy of an exception. The statute expressly contemplates that many drugs ‘have a useful and legitimate medical purpose and are necessary to maintain the health and general welfare of the American people,’ but it includes no exception at all for any medical use of marijuana. Unwilling to view this omission as an accident, and unable in any event to override a legislative determination manifest in a statute, we reject the [Oakland Cannabis Buyers'] Cooperative [medical-necessity] argument." (Opinion, p. 9.) Also… The Institute of Medicine of the National Academy of Sciences was commissioned by Barry McCaffrey, former Director of the Office of National Drug Control Policy, to study this issue. Their 267 page report concluded in 1999 that there are a variety of medical benefits from marijuana and its compounds. They noted the problems with smoking marijuana and the problems of using a crude plant as the source for the medicines. They also noted that marijuana use, per se, is NOT a gateway to other illegal drug use. They recommended more research, but concluded that persons with life threatening illnesses who did not respond to conventional medications be permitted to smoke marijuana. Disregarding the report it commissioned, the US Federal government continues to insist that marijuana has no medical value. The Federal government has resisted legal petitions to reschedule marijuana to permit its use in medicine, and repeated its arguments in numerous court cases. It opposes the use of marijuana in medicine on its websites, in case you’ve never seen those. http://www.usdoj.gov/dea/ongoing/marinol.html http://www.nida.nih.gov/MarijBroch/Marijteenstxt.html#Medicine

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Cowboy wrote: > The solution should be non-controversial. We’re not talking about > potential Vioxxes that will be widely used by generally healthy > people. We’re talking about treatments for dying patients. So let’s > have legislation mandating that the FDA grant access to these drugs > as soon as they show anti-cancer activity.

Ah, but that *is* controversial. Cannabis has shown good anti-brain-cancer activity… but that’s a medical benefit, which is something the US government has decreed cannabis does not have – in much the same way as (and using the same reasoning with which) the Church of Rome declared that the earth did not orbit the sun. Way better to leave sick people to die in agony despite the possibility of effective treatment than for government to admit that it’s been completely full of shit for nearly 70 years.

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"Michael" <muirh…@haidagwaii.net> wrote in message

news:MLednSgOyNrUONTfRVn-og@qcislands.net… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Cowboy wrote: >> The solution should be non-controversial. We’re not talking about >> potential Vioxxes that will be widely used by generally healthy >> people. We’re talking about treatments for dying patients. So let’s >> have legislation mandating that the FDA grant access to these drugs >> as soon as they show anti-cancer activity. > Ah, but that *is* controversial. > Cannabis has shown good anti-brain-cancer activity… but that’s a medical > benefit, which is something the US government has decreed cannabis does > not have – in much the same way as (and using the same reasoning with > which) the Church of Rome declared that the earth did not orbit the sun. > Way better to leave sick people to die in agony despite the possibility of > effective treatment than for government to admit that it’s been completely > full of shit for nearly 70 years.

Where is the US governments decree that Cannabis doesnt have any medical benefit?  They clearly wanted to make it legal for Marinol to be sold, not to mention the most effective emergancy brain damage medication in the world, used for traumatic brain injurty, is made of marijauna and is in EVERY emergancy room in the entire nation.  So, Im unsure of your point. Our government clearly wanted those marijauna medications made available. Not to mention the millions who are on it whos States allow it. Where is this decree?  Just curious. Rob

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How About a ‘Kianna’s Law’? March 24, 2005; Page A14 Of all the opinions being expressed about the Terri Schiavo case, the hardest to understand is cynicism about the politics of Congressional intervention. Only phony "federalists" question Washington’s competence on matters of fundamental rights. And whether you side with Mrs. Schiavo’s parents or husband, it is hard not to be impressed by the spectacle of the nation’s highest legislative body convening over the fate of a single person. No, if our solons have exposed themselves to criticism by taking up the Schiavo case, it should be focused not on their motives but on their inconsistency and lack of proportion. To wit: If Terri Schiavo deserves emergency federal intervention to save her life, people like Kianna Karnes deserve it even more. [Kianna Karnes] The 44-year-old Mrs. Karnes — mother of four and grandmother of one — is not brain-damaged. And the possibility (albeit remote, at this point) exists that she could return to a fully normal life. But she will almost certainly die in the near future as long as the federal government continues to deny her treatment for the kidney cancer that has by now spread throughout her body. What makes Mrs. Karnes’s predicament so depressing is that two different developmental drugs have shown great promise for several years now against this once near-untreatable disease. But not only has the Food and Drug Administration not moved with dispatch to approve the drugs, it has begun imposing new testing requirements that make it all but impossible for their developers — Bayer and Pfizer — to provide them to terminal patients on a "compassionate use" basis. The problem here is the FDA’s unethical — and let us stress, unscientific — insistence on gathering information about drugs by way of "blinded" placebo-controlled trials, in which a subset of study patients are knowingly denied the new treatment and in some cases denied access to any active treatment at all. This may be moral with an antihistamine; it’s certainly not with treatments for a terminal disease. What’s more, it’s entirely unnecessary. We already know what happens to most cancer patients who don’t get treated. They die. We generally know, on average, how long that will take. So placebo groups are entirely unnecessary to prove significant anti-cancer activity, as the yet-unnamed Bayer (BAY 43-9006) and Pfizer (SU 11248) compounds have already done. Yet the FDA is mandating an unethical placebo trial for the Bayer drug. (The Pfizer drug is at least being tested against another form of care, albeit one that’s already all but certain not to work as well.) A deadly follow-on effect of the placebo fetish is that it gives companies a disincentive to run compassionate use programs for unapproved drugs. That’s because companies won’t be able to satisfy FDA demands to enroll patients in placebo trials if patients know they can get the drug for sure (instead of running the risk of getting a sugar pill) through compassionate use. Hence Mrs. Karnes’s deadly predicament. "If the only alternative is death, then for God’s sake let ‘em have the drug," says Mrs. Karnes’s father, John Rowe, who himself survived leukemia only by getting himself into a clinical trial where he could get another investigational therapy (Gleevec, since approved). Who could disagree? Well, a few bureaucratic MDs at the FDA do. More specifically, one Richard Pazdur. He is the current head of cancer drugs evaluation at the FDA, and is unfortunately a leading candidate for a new position that would give him the power to thwart the would-be revolution in biotech cancer treatments as well. Late last year we reported how Dr. Pazdur had undermined — in fact, totally reversed — the meaning of guidelines issued by former Commissioner Mark McClellan intended to speed up drug reviews. His latest attack on the concept of accelerated approval has him demanding that companies enroll patients in placebo-controlled "Phase 3" trials before submitting applications for very promising drugs that should be eligible based on smaller "Phase 2" studies. A few years back, Dr. Pazdur was the agency’s public face in explaining the rejection of Erbitux. That drug has since been approved and become a clinical hit. So has Eloxatin, which the FDA held up for years even after it was approved in Europe but has since become standard care for colon cancer here too. In almost all recent cases of FDA dawdling, the drugs are proving to be far more beneficial in practice than even the supposed "gold-standard" of placebo trials would have ever suggested. So could someone explain, again, what the benefit is of doing such trials? We’re not suggesting Dr. Pazdur is some kind of ogre. But he seems to be more worried about letting drug companies get away with a so-called "race to the bottom" on trial design than he is with getting good drugs to patients. And it’s obvious that he can’t (or won’t) be educated in modern scientific and statistical methods that would allow drugs to be released sooner. We’ve never understood why the Republican majority in Washington hasn’t been more active on drug-approvals over the past four years. What better way to demonstrate compassionate conservatism and commitment to a "culture of life"? Or to unite the free-market wing of the GOP with the social conservative one? Finally, what better riposte to the left’s equation of support for embryonic stem cell research with support for medical progress? The solution should be non-controversial. We’re not talking about potential Vioxxes that will be widely used by generally healthy people. We’re talking about treatments for dying patients. So let’s have legislation mandating that the FDA grant access to these drugs as soon as they show anti-cancer activity. Instead of restricted-access placebo trials, drug researchers could be using large, open access trials in which everyone who wants the new drug can get it. They could then take advantage of advanced statistical methods to figure out whether the drug is working. Wall Street traders use these kinds of math tools all the time, and so do economists. So-called Bayesian statistics are already used in medical device regulation, where even the FDA recognizes that randomizing people into sham surgeries is simply beyond the pale. Well, what about cancer and other terminal patients? They are now dying needlessly in placebo-controlled trials. And would-be patients like Kianna Karnes are dying outside of them because they make "compassionate use" all but impossible. Won’t Congress do something?         URL for this article: http://online.wsj.com/article/0,,SB111163190273988429,00.html Kianna’s Legacy March 29, 2005; Page A14 We regret to report that Kianna Karnes, featured in last Thursday’s editorial on the Food and Drug Administration’s fetish for the placebo-controlled testing of cancer drugs — "How About a ‘Kianna’s Law’1?" — died Friday night of complications from kidney cancer. She was 44. While it came too late to save Mrs. Karnes, our reporting of her plight certainly generated a lot of attention. Bayer and Pfizer — developers of two investigational drugs showing much promise for this particularly deadly cancer — both contacted her doctor almost immediately to discuss the appropriateness of providing the compounds. Mrs. Karnes’s family was also contacted by the FDA and told that the agency stood ready to approve such treatment on an emergency basis. All encouraging steps. But isn’t it a national scandal that cancer sufferers should have to be written about in The Wall Street Journal to be offered legal access to emerging therapies once they’ve run out of other options? The FDA’s oncology division has proven to be essentially incorrigible on this point in recent years, so it’s time for Congressional action mandating that the agency use 21st-century science and statistical methods to get these therapies to patients sooner. More specifically, drug approvals could be based on large trials open to all comers and analyzed with so-called Bayesian statistics, as already happens in the FDA’s medical device division. (Yes, the agency at least recognizes that studies involving, say, "placebo" defibrillators would be beyond the pale.) Mrs. Karnes’s father John Rowe — himself a leukemia survivor — plans intense Congressional lobbying in the coming weeks, and he’s had some interest from Congressman Dan Burton’s (R., Indiana) office in the possibility of sponsoring a "Kianna’s Law." No doubt there will be others willing to sign on. We’ll keep you posted. Meanwhile, we’d suggest that cancer patients looking for a constructive way to make their voices heard — and those looking to educate themselves on the issue — contact the Abigail Alliance for Better Access to Developmental Drugs at www.abigail-alliance.org2.         URL for this article: http://online.wsj.com/article/0,,SB111205740262191466,00.html

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I had a tumor on my kidney a few years ago. I spent months searching doctors that knew what they were doing. I finally found the right one at Missouri University at Columbia. A Doctor Troxel..

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On Sat, 18 Dec 2004 09:59:35 -0600, "Silly Sam" <gew…@hotmail.com> wrote:

|>I had a tumor on my kidney a few years ago. I spent months searching doctors |>that knew what they were doing. I finally found the right one at Missouri |>University at Columbia. A Doctor Troxel.. |>         I had a Nephrectomy trip some years ago, in 1988, there was an accidental C.A.T. scan find, and amputation.         The reason I went to the hospital, was for a Biliary Cholic, Cholisysectomy, but that was dropped for a suspected benign cancer.         I think it was all a scam for a $25,000can kidney, since they did not let me see the x-ray, or the white dot graph with my name on it. Even then it is easy to fool anybody since anybodies x-ray or graph is somewhat similar.         All I got was a no comp HCV tainted blood with no possibility of positive investigation without megabucks, like $70,000 for starters. Triad Productions-Fantalla(c)~EZine~ParaNovel National Association of Assault Research WWWeb>>  http://nwo.naar.be _________________________________________ Usenet Zone Free Binaries Usenet Server More than 120,000 groups Unlimited download http://www.usenetzone.com to open account

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There were many reasons I quit.  How thick is you skin??? >umm…  where can i send my resume for the vacancy at your company? >LOL

pollyanna

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"Warlock" <witc…@suck.com> wrote in news:2jeo27F10cpksU1@uni-berlin.de: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> "Veronika" <veronikalind…@hotmail.com> wrote >> well I know almost nothing about dog,… > wanna know about dogs?  let me tell ya everything you need to know. > dogs are just like people.  they smell bad, they like to travel and > hunt in packs, and they almost always greet you by sticking their nose > in your crotch. > long live cats! > ~:-)

dogs are like crippled domestic-wolves.  A dog will not survive one week alone.  Wolves hunt in packs but are far less dependant than dogs.  I simply cannot like an animal who isn’t independant.  Way to go cats! To cats : live long and prosper ! (long live cats … Amen! :P ) — People have written mournfully about the futility of our pitiful existence, knowing that our civilization will inexorably die when our world ends

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> By the way, what diagnosis are you carrying around?  Mulitple Personality > Disorder?  Bipolar?  Probably a Borderliner! > Agkistrodon

is that your "professional" opinion? or just a sarcastic wiserack from a narcissist? (thank you so much btw for that detailed discussion of how difficult your personal relationships are since women cannot keep up with your vocabulary–I don’t know if I ever would have guessed that about you! ;-P ) And wtf is a "borderliner" ? Is that how you talk to your wife? No wonder she goes apeshit on you! Isn’t is just easier to label someone else with some kind of disorder when they piss you off so that you don’t have to take any responsibility for the conflict.   I do not have a dx of *borderline personality disorder*, if that’s what you mean, thought I suspect all you really meant was to insult me in some way with your limited knowlege of DSM-IV axis II dysfunctions.  I have no Axis II DSM-IV diagnoses–though I have asthma if that helps you at all, and I am allergic to weeds.  And maybe bladder cancer–is that enough of my personal medical history or were you perhaps looking for something more?

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not at all !  freedom of speech and supporting doesn’t mean nodding like fools people expressing their opinions and talking about their lives is more the way of this group way to support each other.  Most people here will not say : oh dear poor you If you’re looking for that kind of support, call Dr Phil lmao  you’ll have a bunch of americans feeling sorry for you – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Wow!  I thought this was a support group.  Another flame! > Agki

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"Veronika" <veronikalind…@hotmail.com> wrote > well I know almost nothing about dog,…

wanna know about dogs?  let me tell ya everything you need to know. dogs are just like people.  they smell bad, they like to travel and hunt in packs, and they almost always greet you by sticking their nose in your crotch. long live cats! ~:-)

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"Agki Strodon" <agkistro…@mindspring.com> wrote > Probably a Borderliner!

you seem like an intelligent and reasonable guy, agki.  i’d suggest that you take a step back and realize that this forum has a core of regular participants who genuinely care about each other.  this group has generally been a safe haven for those of us with "interesting" life experiences and histories.  sometimes flame wars have broken out for the purpose of keeping it that way. just a head’s up.

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"Wmaebe1" <wmae…@aol.comnojunk> wrote > My salary is +$40,000 a year… We don’t have to pay a > penny towards our health insurance…  Unlimited paid sick > days, the list of pluses goes on….

umm…  where can i send my resume for the vacancy at your company? LOL

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"Warlock" <witc…@suck.com> writes: > "Wmaebe1" <wmae…@aol.comnojunk> wrote >> My salary is +$40,000 a year… We don’t have to pay a >> penny towards our health insurance…  Unlimited paid sick >> days, the list of pluses goes on…. > umm…  where can i send my resume for the vacancy at your company?

Watch out – I’d kill for a job like that ;)  MUHAHAHAHA — Claudia Engel  (no emails please) Rule #1: Don’t piss off the borderline when she’s forgot her meds again…

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"Agki  Strodon" <agkistro…@mindspring.com> wrote in news:cZfAc.14988 $Y3.12…@newsread2.news.atl.earthlink.net: > Only one knew that a Mauser was not a > breed of dog.

really?  lol well I know almost nothing about dog, but I do know what a mauser is :) Btw, I disagree with you (The friction begins when we try to communicate between sexes.) Perhaps it’s true in your case…   However, it’s certainly is not in mine. For someone who edits scientific paper you tend to be prone to generalization a lot!  I don’t blame you … you’re simply like most people, i.e. incapable of seeing beyond those generalizations — People have written mournfully about the futility of our pitiful existence, knowing that our civilization will inexorably die when our world ends

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t wrote: >be prepared to find you suddenly dont have enough time to do everything you >want to do, while at the same time realizing you havent actually been doing >anything ;) >enjoy!!! >t

I’ve already perfected that routine.   I don’t want to overwhelm myself with so many plans that just thinking about them sends me back to the couch.  I’m having fun right now just thinking of my last day of work.  I’ll worry about the rest later :) pollyanna

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>> I’m walking on >>clouds right now but I’m afraid when reality hits I’ll come crashing down.   >>Damn, I gotta work on my impulsive behavior :) >>pollyanna >Yeah, that’s what I said…nearly two years ago! >But this does not strike me as an impulse.  You’ve been mulling over quitting >this job for a long time now, and as long as your husband is cool with it, >you’re probably making the right move.  And you’ve even done it the proper >way, >putting in your two weeks’ notice. >Diana (of the Moon)

Well, I was strongly encouraged by my therapist to do it the proper way.   What I meant by impulsive I guess is that I’m still struggling with wondering if I really made the right decision.  My salary is +$40,000 a year and you don’t have that just fall into your lap every day.  (I only have a high school diploma.)  We don’t have to pay a penny towards our health insurance, which is almost unheard of these days.  Unlimited paid sick days, the list of pluses goes on.  I am the kind of person that usually regrets any decision I make and then make myself crazy over it. pollyanna

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> So type already people–I am growing weary of arguing with the horny guy. > cogge

Actually, Cogge’,  I do quite well in the recreational sex department. Finding a woman capable of a stable relationship in that mix isn’t easy, though.  Most can’t figure out a compound miter and very few know the difference between a dado and a groove.  Not one could tell the difference between a ball joint and a ball cock.  Only one knew that a Mauser was not a breed of dog. By the way, what diagnosis are you carrying around?  Mulitple Personality Disorder?  Bipolar?  Probably a Borderliner! Agkistrodon

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"Diana DeLuna" <nakedlightb…@aol.comehither> wrote > I’m pretty sure you can rule out bladder cancer.

i’m not a gambler, but i’m putting my money on stones.  :) obviously the health concerns are the primary issue right now and i’ll be thinking of the coggemonster constantly.  i always try to simplify and focus. "cogge has stones…  cogge has stones…  cogge has…" LOL ~:-P

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well it seems more likely to be interstial cystitis (for a def. see http://www.urologychannel.com/interstitialcystitis/index.shtml than kidney stones because kindey stones hurt like childbirth, and my pain level is not quite that extreme and also the pain is in the kidneys which is about the same place as when you get a stitch in your side from running hard.  Mine is more lower and in my lower back. the signs and symptoms of Bladder cancer are almost identical Signs and Symptoms The primary symptom of bladder cancer is blood in the urine (hematuria). Hematuria may be visible to the naked eye (gross) or visible only under a microscope (microscopic) and is usually painless. Other symptoms include frequent urination and pain upon urination (dysuria).  (from the same site as above)  But I suppose I will just have to wait and see what they say. cogge

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>From: "t" penumbral.infin…@earthlink.net >Date: 6/16/2004 9:10 AM Eastern Standard Time >be prepared to find you suddenly dont have enough time to do everything you >want to do, while at the same time realizing you havent actually been doing >anything ;) >enjoy!!! >t

My experience exactly.  Ge ready to become intimately familiar with Montel and Dr. Phil–at least till you start to realize that every show is like the one before it.  But by that time, the momentum is lost to pick up any worthwhile projects. What have I done in my two years’ hiatus from full-time employment: 1) Started a yoga program.  I’m now approx. half as flexible as I was as a teen, and almost as toned. 2) Caught up on my photo album 3)  Scrounged up the nerve to start posting in newsgroups and message boards. Umm, that’s about it.  And the productivity of #3 is questionable at best! Diana (of the Moon) "I am afraid we are not rid of God because we still have faith in grammar." –Friedrich Nietzsche

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>From: "cogge’" sherl…@url.com >Date: 6/14/2004 1:42 PM Eastern Standard Time >-but now I can add my dr appt and my daughter’s dr >appointments–she has an EEG this week.  School gets out today and I think I >don’t have the energy to keep the kids happy and busy all day long.

Good luck with your doc appts. this week.  I’m pretty sure you can rule out bladder cancer. That’s pretty rare unless you are a smoker, in which case you are susceptible to getting cancer just about anywhere.   But somehow I don’t suspect you smoke.  You don’t strike me as the type who likes to put her life on hold 5 minutes of every hour to take a cigarette break. Diana (of the Moon) "I am afraid we are not rid of God because we still have faith in grammar." –Friedrich Nietzsche

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>From: wmae…@aol.comnojunk  (Wmaebe1) >Date: 6/15/2004 9:10 PM Eastern Standard Time > I’m walking on >clouds right now but I’m afraid when reality hits I’ll come crashing down.   >Damn, I gotta work on my impulsive behavior :) >pollyanna

Yeah, that’s what I said…nearly two years ago! But this does not strike me as an impulse.  You’ve been mulling over quitting this job for a long time now, and as long as your husband is cool with it, you’re probably making the right move.  And you’ve even done it the proper way, putting in your two weeks’ notice. Diana (of the Moon) "I am afraid we are not rid of God because we still have faith in grammar." –Friedrich Nietzsche

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> Hey cogge, in two weeks I will be a member of the clean plate club!!!

so what will you do with yourself? Write a book? paint a portrait? Compose a symphony? do tell!! ;-P cogge

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>> Hey cogge, in two weeks I will be a member of the clean plate club!!! >so what will you do with yourself? Write a book? paint a portrait? Compose a >symphony? do tell!! ;-P >cogge

Well, ummm, I was kinda thinking along the lines of vegetating, at least for a while.  I do have a resume ready but now I have to find something I might like to do.  I think I may have had it with the science field for a long while. I’ll keep you posted. pollyanna

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"Wmaebe1" <wmae…@aol.comnojunk> wrote in message

news:20040615233951.29831.00000083@mb-m18.aol.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> >> Hey cogge, in two weeks I will be a member of the clean plate club!!! > >so what will you do with yourself? Write a book? paint a portrait? Compose a > >symphony? do tell!! ;-P > >cogge > Well, ummm, I was kinda thinking along the lines of vegetating, at least for a > while.  I do have a resume ready but now I have to find something I might like > to do.  I think I may have had it with the science field for a long while. > I’ll keep you posted. > pollyanna

be prepared to find you suddenly dont have enough time to do everything you want to do, while at the same time realizing you havent actually been doing anything ;) enjoy!!! t

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LOL, you are too funny.  So, like I said before:  Mary had a little black sheep :-) >So type already people–I am growing weary of arguing with the horny guy. >cogge

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"cogge’" <sherl…@url.com> wrote > As if I don’t have enough on my plate as it is.

it seems you go out of your way to find more stuff to pile upon your plate. what do you think this life is?  a chinese buffet?  ;) > And here I am walking around feeling like no > one could care less.

i care, but where is the support from your hubby?  brother?  other family? there’s only so many times i can explain that you need to slow down and take care of essentials.  i sound like a broken record already.  don’t make me come out there and hog-tie you! :)

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> > And here I am walking around feeling like no > > one could care less. > i care, but where is the support from your hubby?  brother?  other family? > there’s only so many times i can explain that you need to slow down and take > care of essentials.  i sound like a broken record already.  don’t make me > come out there and hog-tie you!

Thank you for your words of encouragement.  My brother is nice to have around but he is both a comfort and a stressor at the same time.  The other day I saw him and he bought me a chocolate covered cherry cuz he was thinking about me and he knows I like them.  But he is so moody that it is difficult to spend huge amounts of time with him w/o conflict. I was letting go of stuff..  I agreed to not be involved in a volunteer position with the crisis pregnancy center when they asked me; I got rid of the horrible lawyer job because adding 40 hours on top of all my other stuff was too much–but now I can add my dr appt and my daughter’s dr appointments–she has an EEG this week.  School gets out today and I think I don’t have the energy to keep the kids happy and busy all day long. Plus I am on AIM and you aren’t so PLLLBBBBTTTTT!! cogge

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>"cogge’" <sherl…@url.com> wrote >> As if I don’t have enough on my plate as it is.

Hey cogge, in two weeks I will be a member of the clean plate club!!!   I can’t believe I did it, but today I quit my job.  You know, the one I hardly showed up for anyhow.  This will be the first time since I’ve been married that I will be without a job.  I don’t even have anything lined up either.  I’m walking on clouds right now but I’m afraid when reality hits I’ll come crashing down.   Damn, I gotta work on my impulsive behavior :) pollyanna

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and now I have been obsessing over medical websites.  I had an IVP which stands for intravenous pyelogram, and it is a special CT scan to look for bladder or kidney cancer, interstitial cystitis, urinary/renal abnormalities and kidney stones.  So far the most consistant symptoms I have would be either interstitial cystitis or bladder cancer. The really stupid thing is that they take their own sweet time transcribing the stupid CT results and I may have to wait several days or a week to get any results.  And any results will be preliminary, and I will probably have to have a cytoscopy where they put you under general and stick tools up the urethra and look around in there while blowing the bladder up like a balloon–while their in there they biopsy any suspicious looking tissue.  As if I don’t have enough on my plate as it is. And here I am walking around feeling like no one could care less.  I was at my church yesterday and everyone was just chattering away and it is always "hi how are you" and then they move on before you can even answer.  And I was at my daughter’s soft ball game and I feel very invisible.  I am growing weary of the EDC games–we lost one of our funding agencies and are on the verge of losing another–which will be a loss of $17,000 altogether.  All because the chair won’t follow the rules of 501C3 incorporation and doesn’t understand the difference between a non-profit organization and a business. So type already people–I am growing weary of arguing with the horny guy. cogge

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I found a thread from Catherine Honeyman dated May10, 2004 10:59 PM at alt.support.cancer.. I can’t find it Pat. (unless your eyes or Google archives is playing tricks on you..ie not functionning properly) However, I note that someone’s using Catharine’s name on other newsgroups (but using a remailer to do so) http://tinyurl.com/24sxb (unfortunately). (Maybe Tim can explain about remailers) So if you see such a post, probably best not to reply to it. J

I can find it OK.  Its a troll. Someone is faking Catharine’s identity on their posts using software called Dingo Remailer.. This person is primarily writing to soc.support.fat-acceptance, which always suffers from a lot of trolls, perhaps unsurprisingly.  This is a crosspost. Full headers of offending article follow. Tim Jackson Newsgroups: soc.support.fat-acceptance,misc.health.diabetes,alt.support.cancer,misc.con s umers,alt.support.diet.low-carb Comments: This message probably did not originate at the above address. content-length: 1450 Lines: 48 X-Authenticated-User: $$x07i_l90y X-Comments: This message was posted through Newsfeed.com X-Comments2: IMPORTANT: Newsfeeds.com does not condone, nor support,  spam or any illegal or copyrighted postings. X-Comments3: IMPORTANT: Under NO circumstances will postings containing illegal or copyrighted material through this service be tolerated!! http://www.newsfeed.com/abuseform.htm X-Abuse-Info: Please be sure to forward a copy of ALL headers, INCLUDING the body (DO NOT SEND ATTACHMENTS) Organization: Newsfeed.com http://www.newsfeed.com 100,000+ UNCENSORED Newsgroups. Path: wards.force9.net!landlord!news.tdcnorge.no!uninett.no!feed.news.tiscali.de! n ewsfeed.stueberl.de!ecngs!feeder.ecngs.de!38.119.100.149.MISMATCH!news-out2 . nntp.be!local!corp-news!not-for-mail Xref: landlord soc.support.fat-acceptance:178360 misc.health.diabetes:173472 alt.support.cancer:56820 misc.consumers:152936 alt.support.diet.low-carb:652609

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with this, but maybe you are right that she should know, and I will pass on your concerns. I am not sure how things are in England, but identity theft has become one of the top crimes in the states.    It has become so large a problem that the situation is just about almost possible to contain and is, I guess, out-of-control.  Even if for a little while someone could try and obtain any remaining government assets that someone may have had due (one or two payments or even a small lump sum from somewhere).  Trolling, although sinister, would be the lesser of the evils here in terms of what it might cost immediate survivors not only financially but because of all ‘the headaches’ in terms of time and effort involved.

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -I doubt that this identity theft is for more than the purpose of trolling the ‘fat’ community, I don’t think Catharine had much in the way of assets worth acquiring – she "travelled light". I didn’t really feel that it was necessary to bother Jennifer with this, but maybe you are right that she should know, and I will pass on your concerns. I don’t know that she can do more than make an abuse complaint to the the merrier) but if you do want to contact her, reply personally to one of her earlier posts, eg 21April. Tim I never thought of identity theft and have to admit I didn’t read the post. I was just surprised to see one in her name…and wondered why someone would use her name…Pat

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I found a thread from Catherine Honeyman dated May10, 2004 10:59 PM at alt.support.cancer…Is she still helping us from beyond??  Maybe John Edwards has something!!…You go girl!!!…Pat from Apple Valley, CA

OMG. I haven’t posted here for a while, since about ‘02. I remember the supportive posts from Catherine Honeyman, she had a number of health issues but was always so optimistic. In fact, when I came here tonight with a question, I was looking for her posts. When did this happen? If someone doesn’t mind… kaci

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Catharine died on 19 April 2004 There is an obituary notice etc. on her bio page at www.cancersupporters.com We all miss her.  She had been effectively out of communication for about six months previously. Tim Jackson

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – 10:59 PM at alt.support.cancer…Is she still helping us from beyond??   Interesting and wish that was the case but think something even more sinister is occurring–like someone has stolen her identity and may try to get any remaining assets she may have had or it might be someone who needed a ‘new’ identity for some illicit purporse.  The type of post that you found makes me even more suspicious of that.  I am guessing there are some vulchers who are scanning groups like this and ready to pounce when the deed happens.  I am guessing they hope they will go unnoticed because the family is under a lot of stress and for the most part will not be tracking past on-line action, if they even knew how.  This is information that should be sent to her sister as soon as possible.  I would do  it but have no idea where to find her address. Anyone?

I doubt that this identity theft is for more than the purpose of trolling the ‘fat’ community, I don’t think Catharine had much in the way of assets worth acquiring – she "travelled light". I didn’t really feel that it was necessary to bother Jennifer with this, but maybe you are right that she should know, and I will pass on your concerns. I don’t know that she can do more than make an abuse complaint to the the merrier) but if you do want to contact her, reply personally to one of her earlier posts, eg 21April. Tim

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PM at alt.support.cancer…Is she still helping us from beyond??   Interesting and wish that was the case but think something even more sinister is occurring–like someone has stolen her identity and may try to get any remaining assets she may have had or it might be someone who needed a ‘new’ identity for some illicit purporse.  The type of post that you found makes me even more suspicious of that.  I am guessing there are some vulchers who are scanning groups like this and ready to pounce when the deed happens.  I am guessing they hope they will go unnoticed because the family is under a lot of stress and for the most part will not be tracking past on-line action, if they even knew how.  This is information that should be sent to her sister as soon as possible.  I would do  it but have no idea where to find her address. Anyone?

organization, newsfeed.com,  actually sent the post. I prefer to think she is watching after us….Pat – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Organization:   Newsfeed.com http://www.newsfeed.com 100,000+ UNCENSORED Newsgroups. Newsgroups: soc.support.fat-acceptance,misc.health.diabetes,alt.support.cancer,misc.co nsumers,alt.support.diet.low-carb FACT FILE High body mass and its health risks Relative risk* of developing various medical conditions by body mass index  BMI                                      30.0 – 34.9    "

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Correction: The header contains an error – the web-link works but the mail address does not. For what it’s worth, newsfeeds.com is a subscription uncensored news feed presumably aimed at the pornography market.  As well as allowing untraced browsing of a wide range of newsgroups, especially binaries (pictures),  it allows users to post to Usenet anonymously too.  The posts do include an encoded user-id and so should be traceable for anti-abuse or legal purposes. Tim

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I found a thread from Catherine Honeyman dated May10, 2004 10:59 PM at alt.support.cancer…Is she still helping us from beyond??  Maybe John Edwards has something!!…You go girl!!!…Pat from Apple Valley, CA

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I found a thread from Catherine Honeyman dated May10, 2004 10:59 PM at alt.support.cancer..

I can’t find it Pat. (unless your eyes or Google archives is playing tricks on you..ie not functionning properly) However, I note that someone’s using Catharine’s name on other newsgroups (but using a remailer to do so) http://tinyurl.com/24sxb (unfortunately). (Maybe Tim can explain about remailers) So if you see such a post, probably best not to reply to it. J

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I found a thread from Catherine Honeyman dated May10, 2004 10:59 PM at alt.support.cancer…Is she still helping us from beyond??  Maybe John Edwards has something!!…You go girl!!!…Pat from Apple Valley, CA

I can’t comment on Catharine continuing to help us, but want to say that  "Apple Valley"  sounds like a wonderful place to live. Marilyn

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I found a thread from Catherine Honeyman dated May10, 2004 10:59 PM at alt.support.cancer…Is she still helping us from beyond??  Maybe John Edwards has something!!…You go girl!!!…Pat from Apple Valley, CA I can’t comment on Catharine continuing to help us, but want to say that  "Apple Valley"  sounds like a wonderful place to live. Marilyn

It’s not bad, Very HOT in the summer and can get pretty COLD in the winter..But between 80 and 90 degrees it is beautiful. It is your standard desert..The only problem is there are only 2 oncologists in the area and that makes it difficult if you want to be choosyPat

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Here is the total post. Her address looked right. Maybe the organization, newsfeed.com,  actually sent the post. I prefer to think she is watching after us….Pat – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Organization:   Newsfeed.com http://www.newsfeed.com 100,000+ UNCENSORED Newsgroups. Newsgroups: soc.support.fat-acceptance,misc.health.diabetes,alt.support.cancer,misc.con sumers,alt.support.diet.low-carb FACT FILE High body mass and its health risks Relative risk* of developing various medical conditions by body mass index  BMI                                      30.0 – 34.9                 = 40 MEDICAL CONDITION    MEN WOMEN        MEN WOMEN Type 2 diabetes                  10.10   7.24              10.65  19.89 Coronary heart disease     16.01  12.56            13.97  19.22 High blood pressure        48.95  47.95             64.53  63.16 Osteoarthritis                    4.66  9.94                 10.04  17.19 CANCER                         MEN WOMEN           MEN WOMEN Breast                            –  1.63                        –  1.70 Colon                            1.47  1.33                      1.84  1.36 Kidney                      .36 1.66                        1.70  1.70** Liver                         1.90 1.40                       4.52  1.68 Prostate                1.20   —                                 1.34   —  * Relative risk of 2 indicates a person is twice as likely to develop condition as a person with a normal body mass index (18.5 to 24.9). A body mass index of 30.0 or higher is considered obese. ** Relative risk of developing kidney cancer rises to 4.75 in women with BMI greater than or equal to 40. SOURCES: American Obesity Association; American Cancer Society; New England Journal of Medicine

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FACT FILE High body mass and its health risks Relative risk* of developing various medical conditions by body mass index  BMI                                      30.0 – 34.9                 = 40 MEDICAL CONDITION    MEN WOMEN        MEN WOMEN Type 2 diabetes                  10.10   7.24              10.65  19.89 Coronary heart disease     16.01  12.56            13.97  19.22 High blood pressure        48.95  47.95             64.53  63.16 Osteoarthritis                    4.66  9.94                 10.04  17.19 CANCER                         MEN WOMEN           MEN WOMEN Breast                            –  1.63                        –  1.70 Colon                            1.47  1.33                      1.84  1.36 Kidney                      .36 1.66                        1.70  1.70** Liver                         1.90 1.40                       4.52  1.68 Prostate                1.20   —                                 1.34   —  * Relative risk of 2 indicates a person is twice as likely to develop condition as a person with a normal body mass index (18.5 to 24.9). A body mass index of 30.0 or higher is considered obese. ** Relative risk of developing kidney cancer rises to 4.75 in women with BMI greater than or equal to 40. SOURCES: American Obesity Association; American Cancer Society; New England Journal of Medicine

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                              1.34   —  * Relative risk of 2 indicates a person is twice as likely to develop condition as a person with a normal body mass index (18.5 to 24.9). A body mass index of 30.0 or higher is considered obese. ** Relative risk of developing kidney cancer rises to 4.75 in women with BMI greater than or equal to 40. SOURCES: American Obesity Association; American Cancer Society; New England Journal of Medicine

Didn’t Catherine pass away ?

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Why yes she did. There is a no-count idiots forging her. Take it for what it is worth…That would be nothing. LV Lady Veteran "I rode a tank and held a general’s rank when the blitzkrieg raged and the bodies stank…" – -Rolling Stones, Sympathy for the Devil People who hide behind anonymous remailers and ridicule fat people are cowardly idiots with no motive but malice. "To Do Is To Be" Socrates "To Be Is To Do" Plato "Do Be Do Be Do" Sinatra —–BEGIN PGP SIGNATURE—– Version: PGP 8.0 – not licensed for commercial use: www.pgp.com iQA/AwUBQKudWekoPZAZfLgsEQLTtgCg+K/Br6dVkjr3CMrruVde9QODpjgAoJfW XeZArqdN2BZyVJLKlqhs2mNY =5Eg4 —–END PGP SIGNATURE—–

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http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/2268735.stm ..and this is for metastatic melanoma

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – It’s worked in humans J? The blood transfusions Anth for kidney cancer. If you keep one subject only in one post, you’ll find you’ll get less confusing answers, maybe. J

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September 13, 2000 What has happened since then?  Kathy J – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi There’s mounting evidence that blood transfusions from a sibling can actually destroy tumours. I think it goes that the other persons immune system attacks the tumours with vigour. http://www.cnn.com/2000/HEALTH/cancer/09/13/cancer.treatment/

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http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/2268735.stm ..and this is for metastatic melanoma

Anth, there are only 3 useful measures of whether a treatment "works" 1) Does it cure you? 2) If not, does it make you live longer? 3) If not, does it improve the quality of whatever life is left. The study reported in the BBC site achieved none of these.

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September 13, 2000 What has happened since then?  Kathy J

Thanks Kathy J, I missed that and fell for the news story which is all over the ‘net. I missed the boat on that one big time. The "lupies" have been hearing about (the promise of) stem cell for years now. It’s become "yawn, tell me about it when it actually works and has less risks". The more I read on it, the more I realize the answer(s) to Steph’s questions are No, Maybe, but No (Quality) and/or No, No. It seems to be a last-ditch try anything just in case it works or "i’ll try anything at any cost". I think they’re a long way Maybe there’s more information here http://bmtinfonet.org/ but I would think Steph would have heard if there’d been any weight to it currently being a protocol to consider. J

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http://www.euchromatin.org/Childs01.htm Anth

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http://arcweb.tzo.com/arc/arc.nsf/0/68f74276480903328025695f00786177?…

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It’s worked in humans J?

The blood transfusions Anth for kidney cancer. If you keep one subject only in one post, you’ll find you’ll get less confusing answers, maybe. J

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Hi There’s mounting evidence that blood transfusions from a sibling can actually destroy tumours. I think it goes that the other persons immune system attacks the tumours with vigour. http://www.cnn.com/2000/HEALTH/cancer/09/13/cancer.treatment/ (This is for kidney cancer, but I don’t see any reason why it wouldn’t work on other solid tumours?) I was reading Max Gersons book (which is incidentally passed off as quackery) and this is just something that he wanted to try out in humans. Basically use another persons immune system to destroy the cancer. He tried it in mice and it worked. If it is your wish to do this, then she could consult with your doctor or surgeons. You might have to sign something to waver responsibility, but if it saves your life or gives your more time then that’s a good thing. (Blood transfusions have a long history of being safe in mainstream medicine, so I see no reason why your doctor would refuse this) Anth

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 He tried it in mice and it worked.

Are you a mouse? J

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It’s worked in humans J? Anth

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Hello, again, I’m turning to you all for the information you can share with me for this time period. I have posted before, but not frequently. Mom was diagnosed in 1999 and with God’s help and my attention she is just going into the failing stages and I have many questions on how best to handle this. I posted, recently, about blood transfusions.  Our good doctor tells me "no" to hospice, if I want her to have blood transfusions; so, we are getting Procrit and transfusions.  She is now on Faslo-Dex and that has stabilized the liver tumors, so this is one more reprieve we’ve been fortunate to have in our life. I’ve worked very hard to keep my mom as comfortable as possible.  The stresses on me, personally, have been great.  I will continue to work for her, but, for my own health and mental being, I am sorry to say, I will put her in a nursing home when the situation becomes so very difficult for me. Please, let me know, is this wrong;  can nursing home and hospice be what I really want;  when is she best put on hospice for her own mental state? Any and all of these questions are in my head – I feel I need some guidelines for the future and you kind people are my best source. God Bless us all, Dee — Friends, I will remember you, think of you, pray for you, and when another day is through, I’ll still be friends with you.    - John Denver

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Please, let me know, is this wrong;  can nursing home and hospice be what I really want;  when is she best put on hospice for her own mental state?

That’s what they are there for.  They know how to deal with patients at your mother’s stage.  It’s probably the kindest thing you could do for both yourself and her.  You can visit lots and be there for her but let the experts pick up the physical caregiving. What does she think?  Are you able to discuss this with her?  If so, you might be surprised that she might like to help take some of the burden off you. Please keep us posted on how things go. Wishing you the best. …lisa

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hi Dee, when my grandma was entering the last stages of her cancer, she was undergoing radiation treatments to control the pain caused by the tumors growing in her brain. I pushed for hospice care but because of medicare, hospice wasn’t an option while she was receiving the radiation treatment. I’m not 100% positive as to medicare’s reasoning or policy regarding the care of a terminal  patient but I do know that she made a very difficult choice, continue the radiation or try for hospice. she stopped the radiation and a hospice nurse was sent to her home that following monday. mostly pain measures were taken…. but as far as putting your mom in a nursing home…. some if not all hospitals have a hospice unit. I’d recommend that before putting your mom into a nursing home. I worked in a couple of nursing homes just before I graduated high school and I saw some pretty scary stuff… some of the residents only got mediocre care while others got lousy care or those whose family were there on a constant basis got awesome care. nursing homes are understaffed, overworked, underpaid and sometimes the people there just don’t care as much as they probably could… the turnaround rate is relatively high so if susie has been taking care of your relative for the last 3 weeks, come the beginning of the 4th week you may be greeted with a new face… some places turn around in a matter of weeks some a matter of months…. it’s very stressful work. I know you’re faced with a very difficult decision… if you find you have to put your mom into a nursing home, if I may suggest; have either yourself or a family member try to be there as much as possible to ensure that she’s being treated well. before placement, schedule a time to check some places out, interview the staff and then try to pick random times to just drop in and observe. I hope this helps….

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Hi There’s mounting evidence that blood transfusions from a sibling can actually destroy tumours. I think it goes that the other persons immune system attacks the tumours with vigour. http://www.cnn.com/2000/HEALTH/cancer/09/13/cancer.treatment/ (This is for kidney cancer, but I don’t see any reason why it wouldn’t work on other solid tumours?) I was reading Max Gersons book (which is incidentally passed off as quackery) and this is just something that he wanted to try out. Basically use another persons immune system to destroy the cancer. He tried it in mice and it worked. If it is your mothers wish to do this, then she could consult with your doctor or surgeons. She might have to sign something to waver responsibility, but if it saves her life or gives her more time then that’s a good thing. (Blood transfusions have a long history of being safe in mainstream medicine, so I see no reason why your doctor would refuse this) (I will post this in main group to see if anyone has experience with this – I find this interesting) Anth

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hello, again, I’m turning to you all for the information you can share with me for this time period. I have posted before, but not frequently. Mom was diagnosed in 1999 and with God’s help and my attention she is just going into the failing stages and I have many questions on how best to handle this. I posted, recently, about blood transfusions.  Our good doctor tells me "no" to hospice, if I want her to have blood transfusions; so, we are getting Procrit and transfusions.  She is now on Faslo-Dex and that has stabilized the liver tumors, so this is one more reprieve we’ve been fortunate to have in our life. I’ve worked very hard to keep my mom as comfortable as possible.  The stresses on me, personally, have been great.  I will continue to work for her, but, for my own health and mental being, I am sorry to say, I will put her in a nursing home when the situation becomes so very difficult for me. Please, let me know, is this wrong;  can nursing home and hospice be what I really want;  when is she best put on hospice for her own mental state? Any and all of these questions are in my head – I feel I need some guidelines for the future and you kind people are my best source. God Bless us all, Dee — Friends, I will remember you, think of you, pray for you, and when another day is through, I’ll still be friends with you.    - John Denver

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Dee, There comes a point when someone has to make a decision about hich way you want to go with your grandmother’s treatment. If you are still fighting to keep her alive then hospice is not the direction to go,you have to stay with acute care hospitals and nursing homes. There is a cost in quality of life in doing this and the returns in terms of life expectancy are often non existent or even negative…given that some treatments can do harm and cause pain. If you want the best quality of life without her necessarily having a shorter life then hospice is the best place to be.If she is not imminently terminal then home or nursing home with palliative supportis the way to go. MIKE

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hello, again, I’m turning to you all for the information you can share with me for this time period. I have posted before, but not frequently. Mom was diagnosed in 1999 and with God’s help and my attention she is just going into the failing stages and I have many questions on how best to handle this. I posted, recently, about blood transfusions.  Our good doctor tells me "no" to hospice, if I want her to have blood transfusions; so, we are getting Procrit and transfusions.  She is now on Faslo-Dex and that has stabilized the liver tumors, so this is one more reprieve we’ve been fortunate to have in our life. I’ve worked very hard to keep my mom as comfortable as possible.  The stresses on me, personally, have been great.  I will continue to work for her, but, for my own health and mental being, I am sorry to say, I will put her in a nursing home when the situation becomes so very difficult for me. Please, let me know, is this wrong;  can nursing home and hospice be what I really want;  when is she best put on hospice for her own mental state? Any and all of these questions are in my head – I feel I need some guidelines for the future and you kind people are my best source. God Bless us all, Dee — Friends, I will remember you, think of you, pray for you, and when another day is through, I’ll still be friends with you.    - John Denver

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try alt.support.cancer too. (I just cross-posted) J – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I must be one of the luckiest people in the world.  I passed a kidney stone two weeks ago and went to the emergency room.  They took some x-rays to see if all the stones were passed, and found a Stage 1 tumor (~7 cm) in my left kidney.  Thank God for my kidney stone! The urologist wants to perform a radical nephrectomy, but acknowledges that there are other techniques available, such as freezing the tumor.  I’ve also read about partial nephrectomies and laparoscopic nephrectomies. Can someone tell me if they have experience with the decision I face and what things I should consider? Thanks.

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My mother in law was diagnosed with stage 3 kidney cancer 3 and half months ago.   I found the kidney-onc support group very helpful, friendly and informative. I think details on how to subscribe can be found at http://cancerguide.org/kofaq/  Good luck in your fight. Regards Anette

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On Wed, 25 Sep 2002 20:34:51 GMT, dirtde…@rcip.com (Glen Appleby) wrote: }OK, now stop that!  Yer giving me ideas that … well, frankly, }civilized people shouldn’t be considering.

But, but, but…. Glen, it was an innocent question. Really. Honest. For sure. — Joan I used to think trolls lived under bridges, now I know they exist in newsgroups.

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On Wed, 25 Sep 2002 20:36:18 -0400, in alt.support.mult-sclerosis,Joan Carter <jecar…@gmx.net> wrote: >On Wed, 25 Sep 2002 20:34:51 GMT, dirtde…@rcip.com (Glen Appleby) >wrote: >}OK, now stop that!  Yer giving me ideas that … well, frankly, >}civilized people shouldn’t be considering. >But, but, but…. Glen, it was an innocent question. Really. Honest. >For sure.

Oh, "ionnocent" my butt (I’f you’ll pardon my use of the word)! I know that yer married and I’m *pretty* sure that hubby hasn’t left you innocent. … I hope … Glen (… for both of yer sakes) Appleby — "Who we are and who we become depends, in part, on whom we love." — "A General Theory Of Love"  Thanks, Mom ______________________________________________________________ Glen Appleby  gl…@armory.com <HTTP://www.armory.com/~glena/>

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On Thu, 26 Sep 2002 08:07:12 +1000, in alt.support.mult-sclerosis,"JiLs" <j…@optushome.com.au> wrote: >"Glen Appleby" <dirtde…@rcip.com> wrote in message >news:3d91b794.923176307@216.168.3.40… >> Entertaining?  ENTERTAINING? >> But I came here for *support*! >> Oh?  That’s down the hall, first door on the left? >> Thanks.  I thought that was the womans’ bathroom. >you need support? maybe you could get tighter undies? ones with a little >lycra in are good .. i’m told ..

I wear a cup. I hold it in place with duct tape. >> At least I stink *less* that I did when I smoked 2 1/2 to 3 packs >> a day.  Don’t I get, at least, partial credit? >yep, you get partial credit for cutting down. >*double YOUR credit NOW*

Say … is this spam? — "Who we are and who we become depends, in part, on whom we love." — "A General Theory Of Love"  Thanks, Mom ______________________________________________________________ Glen Appleby  gl…@armory.com <HTTP://www.armory.com/~glena/>

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On Thu, 26 Sep 2002 07:47:16 +1000, in alt.support.mult-sclerosis,"Mad Max" <MadMa…@freemail.com.au> wrote: >At least he didnt say he smokes his cigs down to the butt. That would be a >bit hard to believe he could bend like that.

If I could bend like that, I would just *never* get out of the house … or even out of the bedroom. >As it is, though it is bad >enough. In Australia when you say you roll your own, it is more often >associated with male behaviour that has nothing to do with smoking though in >the hands of some people…… (grinning)

Glen (still rolling pinners) Appleby — "Who we are and who we become depends, in part, on whom we love." — "A General Theory Of Love"  Thanks, Mom ______________________________________________________________ Glen Appleby  gl…@armory.com <HTTP://www.armory.com/~glena/>

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Sorry Glen, but I have to add my "insight" My stepfather died from emphysema in his early sixties. He had been diagnosed with MS about 15 years earlier, and never got over that. He said he would rather die from cancer than become "disabled". Unfortunately for him, he ended up with horrible breathing difficulties for the last 7 years of his life, many days spent in the hospital. Awful way to go. I have a father who had his larynx removed when he was 55 from throat cancer. Awful procedure and recovery, plus his difficulty communicating is quite a disability and has kept him from many jobs. Fortunately my husband and I had already quit, but I don’t think I could knowingly spend all that money after seeing all those people in the hospital wards. And I really, really liked smoking. I’m afraid that as a wife, with this experience, I would nag until the end. Dawn "Glen Appleby" <dirtde…@rcip.com> wrote in message

news:3d90c4f3.861053456@216.168.3.40… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Not a big or a bad step, but a *fairly* definate step. > Some years ago, my wife decided that I should quit smoking (yeah, > like *that’s* bad for my health.  The MS?  *What* MS?).  This in > spite of the fact that she and I both smoked when we met, and > both of us smoked for the first 10 years that we were married. > Apparently it was decided by the Feminine Treasure that I > *needed* to quit smoking.  That I already have one mother is not > good enough.  I clearly need more … and a keeper. > She ragged and ragged that I should quit.  I continued to smoke > and she continued to try everything that she could, to make my > smoking life a living hell.  Eh, that’s one of the reasons that > we get married, right?  We have potential and we just need a > woman to bring that out in us.  And, like the old Nazis, they > have ways of making us comply. > I had tried to quit a few times in past years. > Most of those times, in the early years, had to do with financial > reasons.  Those failed miserably, of course. > A few times, though, I honestly tried to quit on my own.  Yikes, > that is *rough*! > Along came Nicorette.  I wanted to give it a try.  This was back > in the daze when a perscription was required and my wife got one > from her doctor.  Unfortunately, at that time, only the 2mg was > available. > But added to the difficulty was that we had just moved up to the > mountains and I was commuting with a neighbor who is a long-time > friend.  He believes in driving as if the throttle is a switch: > either on or off — even (or especially) on the narrow mountain > roads (we commuted over highway 9 in the Santa Cruz mountains). > His motto was "to work on time or die on 9". > I honestly tried to use the gum while I was in the car with him. > Given the excess adrenaline that I was pumping as a passenger, > this was doomed to failure. > I got a second car, began driving myself, and went back to > smoking. > Some years later, the Feminine Treasure decided more forcefully > (she upped the bitching level) that, if I *insisted* on smoking, > I could no longer do it in the house. > For the sake of domestic accord, I complied. > This was *almost* acceptable, but … over time, the nagging > level began to rise again.  This time she complained more about > health concerns. > OK, DAMNIT!!! > I’ll switch to American Spirit cigarettes.  At least those don’t > have all of the additives in them. > This seemed almost acceptable … for a while. > Then she started complaining about the expense of the cigarettes. > FINE!!! > Criminy, the things that I go through for simple sex (that was > way before I understood all that an air conditioner could do for > me). > I started buying the American Spirit tobacco and rolling my own. > I was *really* bad at it, at first.  Kathy would roll a days > worth for me, before she left for work in the morning.  During > the day I would attempt to roll one or two. > I actually got fairly good at it.  I used a bamboo rolling pad > and I could roll a cigarette almost as fast as a smoker of > regular cigarettes could pull the pack out of his pocket and yank > a cigarette out of the pack. > Besides, I found that it was an interesting skill.  I was pretty > darned proud of this ability … until I worked at the locked > mental facility. > There were a coupla guys there who rolled their own … without a > rolling pad.  They used only their fingers and the paper and > rolled cigaretts that were indestinguishable from the purchased > unfiltered cigarettes. > Well, my way worked for me.  I was still quite happy with the > results. > Kathy’s nagging cranked up again.  She really wanted me to quit. > Geeze, what does it take to please a woman? > By this time, there were two major changes.  I could buy > Nicorette over the counter AND (this is the important part) it > was also available in 4 mg. > I decided to try it, just to see if it would work and … darned > if it didn’t! > I was going along fine with just the gum for some weeks. > Then we watched a video that had some guy smoking.  Darned if it > didn’t look good to me. > Aw, damn me, I’m so weak!  I rolled one and went outside to smoke > it.  This started me back on the path to hell. > Now, even though I was smoking again, I no longer smoked 2 1/2 to > 3 packs a day, like I did when I was buying prerolled butts.  I > was down to about 10 a day. > I could certinally live with that and I was determined that Kathy > would, too. > She has. > All is well with the world. > Until recently. > My hands have gotten to be so bad that … well, I simply can’t > roll like I used to.  About one out of 3 turns out to be a waste > of effort. > More recently, in the past month or so, it got even worse. > Now walking is incredibly frustrating to me … as is sometimes > even staying awake for more than a few hours at a time.  The > additional frustration of struggeling to roll cigarettes was just > too much. > I *try* to push the envelope with my abilities. > Sure, walking is incredibly difficult for me, but I’d like to > maintain whatever use of my legs I can, for as long as possible. > Same for rolling cigarettes.  People kept suggesting rolling > machines, but I always felt that they were … wussie. > A coupla days ago, though, I gave up (or in).  I had Kathy buy me > a little rolling machine.  It was all of $3 (about the same price > as a rolling pad, which I also needed, so I don’t feel bad about > the "incredible" expense). > The first day, I was totally befuddled by it. > I preferred my cigarettes to be rolled loosely, so that they drew > easier.  This machine rolled only tightly packed pinners, for > crying out loud! > I felt like a beginner again. > One day, somebody was by that I knew smoked.  I asked to borrow a > cigarette from them *honestly borrow, not the kinda borrow that > means "I want to smoke it, but not pay for it … but I’ll return > the ashes and the butt if you insist". > I just wanted to compare the diameter of a regular cigarette with > the ones from the rolling machine. > Danged if they weren’t the same. > OK, so I am onto a machine now. > It doesn’t give me quite the pride of rolling them by hand, but > damnit, I have MS!  Gimme a freakin’ break, here! > Besides, cigarettes are bad for yer health, right? > — > "Who we are and who we become depends, in part, on whom we love." > — "A General Theory Of Love"  Thanks, Mom > ______________________________________________________________ > Glen Appleby  gl…@armory.com <HTTP://www.armory.com/~glena/>

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"Joan Carter" <jecar…@gmx.net> wrote in message

news:rr84pu0mgqthfp0ac5i0ft42ca16c7822t@4ax.com… > On Wed, 25 Sep 2002 18:43:59 GMT, dirtde…@rcip.com (Glen Appleby) > wrote: > }Since smoking is now > }socially unacceptable, I can go outside to burn a butt without > }being concerned that anybody will be offended. > You burn your butt, Glen? You like pain? I am trying to understand > this self destructive behaviour. Do you want Jils to put a bandaid on > your burned butt? (I have not misunderstood you, have I?) :-)

At least he didnt say he smokes his cigs down to the butt. That would be a bit hard to believe he could bend like that. As it is, though it is bad enough. In Australia when you say you roll your own, it is more often associated with male behaviour that has nothing to do with smoking though in the hands of some people…… (grinning) UM.

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On Wed, 25 Sep 2002 17:02:36 -0400, in alt.support.mult-sclerosis,Joan Carter <jecar…@gmx.net> wrote: >On Wed, 25 Sep 2002 18:43:59 GMT, dirtde…@rcip.com (Glen Appleby) >wrote: >}Since smoking is now >}socially unacceptable, I can go outside to burn a butt without >}being concerned that anybody will be offended. >You burn your butt, Glen? You like pain? I am trying to understand >this self destructive behaviour. Do you want Jils to put a bandaid on >your burned butt? (I have not misunderstood you, have I?) :-)

OK, now stop that!  Yer giving me ideas that … well, frankly, civilized people shouldn’t be considering. My first reaction is that it sound just about as pleasurable as a proctoscopic exam and people are paying BigBuk$ for those …. which gives me an idea for entry into the prostitution field. Glen (I’m not free, but I *can* be had) Appleby — "Who we are and who we become depends, in part, on whom we love." — "A General Theory Of Love"  Thanks, Mom ______________________________________________________________ Glen Appleby  gl…@armory.com <HTTP://www.armory.com/~glena/>

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On Wed, 25 Sep 2002 10:50:37 -0700 (PDT), in alt.support.mult-sclerosis,HAMPERSH…@webtv.net (Chrys and sometimes Brian) wrote: >Glen, >The simple reason we "wimmon folk" nag you guys about smoking, is >because we love you so much we don’t want to lose you!

Perhaps some wimmen mistake screeching nagging for love. Most guys, however, will *never* mistake a Lewensky for screeching or nagging. >Just my opinion!

It’s an opinion held by many … … oops, not that wimmen love *me* so much that they don’t wanna lose me, but men in general. See, I have been having a somewhat long discussion on another group with someone who worked the alcoholism programs (no, not bars!  Just the opposite) for 12 years and doesn’t believe that it is OK to allow people the respoect and dignity to pick their method of death. Now, I don’t agree that smoking is the major cause of death by any disease (I know, I know, "But the government *says*!"), so I’m not saying that people should be allowed to die by cigarette. What I am saying is that people find their path based on the experiences that they have had and upon the circumstances in which they find themselves. Smoking can serve some good purposes, as well.  For example, I *really* like people.  However, when I am at a largish social experience, it can easily overwhelm me and it benefits me to be able to get away for a few minutes.  Since smoking is now socially unacceptable, I can go outside to burn a butt without being concerned that anybody will be offended. — "Who we are and who we become depends, in part, on whom we love." — "A General Theory Of Love"  Thanks, Mom ______________________________________________________________ Glen Appleby  gl…@armory.com <HTTP://www.armory.com/~glena/>

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you need support? maybe you could get tighter undies? ones with a little lycra in are good .. i’m told .. yep, you get partial credit for cutting down. *double YOUR credit NOW* — ~~JiLs~~ Old age and treachery will triumph over youth & skill "Glen Appleby" <dirtde…@rcip.com> wrote in message

news:3d91b794.923176307@216.168.3.40… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> On Wed, 25 Sep 2002 12:32:36 +1000, in > alt.support.mult-sclerosis,"JiLs" <j…@optushome.com.au> wrote: > >oh, sorry petal. you write in a very entertaining manner. > Entertaining?  ENTERTAINING? > But I came here for *support*! > Oh?  That’s down the hall, first door on the left? > Thanks.  I thought that was the womans’ bathroom. > >but if you smoke, you still stink :P > So harsh! > At least I stink *less* that I did when I smoked 2 1/2 to 3 packs > a day.  Don’t I get, at least, partial credit? > — > "Who we are and who we become depends, in part, on whom we love." > — "A General Theory Of Love"  Thanks, Mom > ______________________________________________________________ > Glen Appleby  gl…@armory.com <HTTP://www.armory.com/~glena/>

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On Wed, 25 Sep 2002 16:36:28 -0400, in alt.support.mult-sclerosis,Jim Carter <spam.f…@softhome.net> wrote: >On Wed, 25 Sep 2002 18:43:59 GMT, dirtde…@rcip.com (Glen Appleby) wrote in >alt.support.mult-sclerosis: >>Since smoking is now >>socially unacceptable, I can go outside to burn a butt without >>being concerned that anybody will be offended. >You could move to Qu

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are there any good books out there, or websites that contain, stories of cancer survival?  either conventional or alternative medicine, spirituality, etc? anything christian oriented? my wife has a rather large metestatic tumor near her kidney, and she is currently recovering from exploratory surgery before her doctors begin treatments.  in the meantime, we have both heard of  folks surviving cancer for years, even beating it, and she would like to read something encouraging. thanks in advance… mark-h

    I read and greatly enjoyed Lance Armstrong’s book, "It’s Not About the Bike".  If you don’t know his story, he had metastases of testicular cancer to the lungs and to his brain.  He went on to win the Tour de France three times since his recovery after chemotherapy.

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – "The Cure For All Cancers" by Hulda Clark. www.drhuldaclark.org   are there any good books out there, or websites that contain, stories of cancer survival?  either conventional or alternative medicine, spirituality, etc? anything christian oriented? my wife has a rather large metestatic tumor near her kidney, and she is currently recovering from exploratory surgery before her doctors begin treatments.  in the meantime, we have both heard of  folks surviving cancer for years, even beating it, and she would like to read something encouraging. thanks in advance… mark-h —

IMHO "The Cure For All Cancers" by Hulda Clark is a great fairy story.  It is sort of like "The Princess Bride" on Acid. r — "I will not be pushed, filed, stamped, indexed, briefed, de-briefed, or numbered…My life is my own." "I am not a number.  I am a free man." No. 6

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One book you might consider is: "Love, Medicine & Miracles" by Bernie S. Siegel, M.D. ISBN 0-06-091983-3

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are there any good books out there, or websites that contain, stories of cancer survival?  either conventional or alternative medicine, spirituality, etc? anything christian oriented? my wife has a rather large metestatic tumor near her kidney, and she is currently recovering from exploratory surgery before her doctors begin treatments.  in the meantime, we have both heard of  folks surviving cancer for years, even beating it, and she would like to read something encouraging. thanks in advance…

CancerGuide http://cancerguide.org/ is an excellent web site. It is maintained by ex-cancer patient Steve Dunn who 1989 was diagnosed with widely metastasized kidney cancer. The Oxford Health Project, an arm of the Fischer Family Trust, has made a very generous grant which is allowing him to devote his energies to CancerGuide on a full time basis in 2002. Besides lots of useful information and links CancerGuide contains also inspirational stories by fellow cancer patients. Others have suggested Bernie Siegel’s books. I’ve read all of them. If you like his books, they may be good for the soul. Psychological and emotional aspects do play a role in survival and recovery. However, Siegel’s books may not be good for everyone. Some patients get performance pressure from his  books. They feel that if they don’t succeed, it would be because they didn’t try hard enough and feel guilty. I don’t think that Siegel meant it that way, according to him it’s ok to fail and even give up if that’s what you decide. But nevertheless Siegel’s books seem to increase pressure on some people. As for the Hulda Clark and her books, forget them. IMHO they are absolute garbage and waste of time. I think that most experts in alternative cancer treatments have the same opinion about Ms. Clark. In addition to conventional treatment information, CancerGuide has also some, although fairly limited information about alternative treatments on the page http://cancerguide.org/alternative.html which also contains a link to a brief review of a few books: http://cancerguide.org/alternative_books.html One of these is Choices in Healing. Integrating the Best of Conventional and Complementary Approaches to Cancer. Michael Lerner, Ph.D. 1994 MIT Press, Cambridge MA http://www.commonweal.org/choicescontents.html which is now also available on the web. I bought my paper version in 1994 when it just had come out. It’s very pleasant and humane book, without bias, well researched, but still very readable. But IMHO its age is starting to show. CancerGuide mentions also John Boik’s first book, "Cancer and Natural Medicine: A Text Book of Basic Science and Clinical Research". Boik’s two books are presented on the web page http://www.ompress.com/main-bookinfo.htm IMHO these two books are by far the best, most profound and most scientific books ever written about alternative cancer treatments. They use scientific method, are based entirely on the studies published in peer-reviewed scientific journals and make no claims about efficacy of the substances presented. The anti-cancer effect of a single natural substance is usually weak. Therefore Boik has studied synergism between them and proposes the use (or actually research of the use) of fairly large number of substances (15-40) which synergistically strengthen each other’s efficacy. Boik’s book are fairly technical and therefore not light reading. They are best suited for a relatively sophisticated reader with some science background. Boik’s books and some links to referates and reviews: 1) Boik, John. Cancer and Natural Medicine: A Textbook of Basic Science and Clinical Research. Oregon Medical Press, 1996, paperback, 331 pages, 8.5" x 11" $28.00, ISBN: 0-9648280-0-6. http://www.ompress.com/pix/toc_cnm.pdf http://www.ompress.com/main-reviews.htm http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0964828006/qid=1020470631/sr=1… CancerGuide: Review of John Boik’s Book by David Ungar, MD David Ungar is a pediatric oncologist at the University of Pennslyvania. http://www.cancerguide.org/ungar_boik_rev.html Reviews http://www.chinabooks.com.au/PAGES/other%20therapies/boik%20books.htm 2) Boik, John. Natural Compounds in Cancer Therapy. Oregon Medical Press; March, 2001; paperback; 520 pages; 8.5