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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -"BJ" <B…@sk.nojunk.ca> wrote in message <news:urjg9gjgfuto0d@corp.supernews.com>… > Hi Trin, > The doctor likely has a good reason for wanting to do that. They have to > tell you their thinking. I would tell them to forget it too, unless they > explained it to me in full. > Are you still on bed rest? > BJ-Sk. Canada > "Trinity" <tri…@attbi.com> wrote in message > news:8ef4543a.0210250800.36e3ffe0@posting.google.com… > > Well the doc would like to take my baby three weeks earlier but wont > > tell me why! i have asked and asked but no answers, they say she is > > small! well all my kids have been on the small side! so i worried > > hubby says ask again this next week and wait there until you get an > > answer! so that is what i am going to do ! i dont like to be kept in > > the dark abotu thing like this! well i should get going kids are on > > fall break and driving me crazy!!! SMILE ALL Love Trin
Well yes i am on bed rest, they would like me to get more but how much more can i get i try and sleep most of the days and then kids come home and then hubby dont get much rest when everyone is home! my mother in law does not come around anymore, so it is just me cooking and cleaning the best i can one day i have lots of energy the next forget it! but that is also the lupus! but it is saturday i think i will go and eat breakfast and then take daughter to ballet and her first sleep over! she is so happy!!! Trin
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In article <3DBA8526.85518…@execulink.com>, J <J…@NoSPAM.invalid> wrote [ >The antibodies that produce problems in the mother may cross the placenta >and produce a very slow heart rate, anemia, a low platelet count, or a low >white blood cell count in the fetus. However, these antibodies gradually >disappear over several weeks once the baby is born, and the problems they >cause resolve. <snip>
That's called Neonatal Lupus, I believe, but this does NOT mean the baby has "lupus" like you have. -- Andy [Editor, Austrian Philatelic Society] For Austrian philately <URL:http://www.kitzbuhel.demon.co.uk/austamps> For Lupus <URL:http://www.kitzbuhel.demon.co.uk/lupus> For my other interests <URL:http://www.kitzbuhel.demon.co.uk>
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Andy <a…@kitzbuhel.demon.co.uk> wrote in message <news:CAvAlvAsfvu9Ewta@kitzbuhel.demon.co.uk>… > In article <3DBA8526.85518…@execulink.com>, J <J…@NoSPAM.invalid> wrote > [ > >The antibodies that produce problems in the mother may cross the placenta > >and produce a very slow heart rate, anemia, a low platelet count, or a low > >white blood cell count in the fetus. However, these antibodies gradually > >disappear over several weeks once the baby is born, and the problems they > >cause resolve. <snip> > That's called Neonatal Lupus, I believe, but this does NOT mean the baby > has "lupus" like you have.
Thank you for the artical it was very help full! there were things in there i did not know ! Trin
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In article <8ef4543a.0210270633.51518...@posting.google.com>, Trinity <tri...@attbi.com> wrote [ >Thank you for the artical it was very help full! there were things in >there i did not know ! Trin
Ah weel, ye ken the noo... -- Andy [Editor, Austrian Philatelic Society] For Austrian philately <URL:http://www.kitzbuhel.demon.co.uk/austamps> For Lupus <URL:http://www.kitzbuhel.demon.co.uk/lupus> For my other interests <URL:http://www.kitzbuhel.demon.co.uk>
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Hi Trinity, I was at my OB doctor today for my annual; and I was discussing having a baby while having lupus, and he stated a few things that made me think of you. He said it is common for them to take the baby early due to several reasons. He said often the baby will just stop growing, the placenta can separate, or they want to prevent a stillbirth. He made it sound as though it is what is best for the baby, and so I wonder what your doctor’s reasoning is; I’m sure it must be good, but I don’t understand why he won’t tell you. I’m not pregnant and my doctor was just trying to explain what to expect. Are you taking heparin shots?(to thin your blood) Good luck and I hope your doing better. Rebecca "Trinity" <tri…@attbi.com> wrote in message
news:8ef4543a.0210250800.36e3ffe0@posting.google.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Well the doc would like to take my baby three weeks earlier but wont > tell me why! i have asked and asked but no answers, they say she is > small! well all my kids have been on the small side! so i worried > hubby says ask again this next week and wait there until you get an > answer! so that is what i am going to do ! i dont like to be kept in > the dark abotu thing like this! well i should get going kids are on > fall break and driving me crazy!!! SMILE ALL Love Trin
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -"John Kakouris" <tree…@earthlink.net> wrote in message <news:gBIv9.2432$Ik6.250778@newsread1.prod.itd.earthlink.net>… > Hi Trinity, > I was at my OB doctor today for my annual; and I was discussing having a > baby while having lupus, and he stated a few things that made me think of > you. He said it is common for them to take the baby early due to several > reasons. He said often the baby will just stop growing, the placenta can > separate, or they want to prevent a stillbirth. He made it sound as though > it is what is best for the baby, and so I wonder what your doctor’s > reasoning is; I’m sure it must be good, but I don’t understand why he won’t > tell you. I’m not pregnant and my doctor was just trying to explain what to > expect. Are you taking heparin shots?(to thin your blood) Good luck and I > hope your doing better. > Rebecca > "Trinity" <tri…@attbi.com> wrote in message > news:8ef4543a.0210250800.36e3ffe0@posting.google.com… > > Well the doc would like to take my baby three weeks earlier but wont > > tell me why! i have asked and asked but no answers, they say she is > > small! well all my kids have been on the small side! so i worried > > hubby says ask again this next week and wait there until you get an > > answer! so that is what i am going to do ! i dont like to be kept in > > the dark abotu thing like this! well i should get going kids are on > > fall break and driving me crazy!!! SMILE ALL Love Trin
Yep on heprin shots twice a day, and it looks like my little girl has slowed down on growing so they are thinking that if she does not grow in the next two weeks they will be taking her! that is what i got out of them on tuesday! hope you all have a save and happy haloween! Love Trin
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Hi Trin, The doctor likely has a good reason for wanting to do that. They have to tell you their thinking. I would tell them to forget it too, unless they explained it to me in full. Are you still on bed rest? BJ-Sk. Canada "Trinity" <tri…@attbi.com> wrote in message
news:8ef4543a.0210250800.36e3ffe0@posting.google.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Well the doc would like to take my baby three weeks earlier but wont > tell me why! i have asked and asked but no answers, they say she is > small! well all my kids have been on the small side! so i worried > hubby says ask again this next week and wait there until you get an > answer! so that is what i am going to do ! i dont like to be kept in > the dark abotu thing like this! well i should get going kids are on > fall break and driving me crazy!!! SMILE ALL Love Trin
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Sharon Perloff <noway…@hotmail.com> wrote in message <news:apbqnf$7bdr$1@ID-163463.news.dfncis.de>… > Trinity wrote: > > Well the doc would like to take my baby three weeks earlier but wont > > tell me why! i have asked and asked but no answers, they say she is > > small! well all my kids have been on the small side! so i worried > > hubby says ask again this next week and wait there until you get an > > answer! so that is what i am going to do ! i dont like to be kept in > > the dark abotu thing like this! well i should get going kids are on > > fall break and driving me crazy!!! SMILE ALL Love Trin > ((((Trin and baby))))) > I would demand an answer today! But that’s just me and my hot head.
> You are your body’s keeper, and you and only you get to make choices for > your own body’s health. Listening to doctors’ opinions is the best way > to make those decisions, but if you don’t know what’s going on, then > find out. Don’t let them bully you into doing what they think is > correct, because they’re only human too, and all humans make mistakes > and can maybe do something you didn’t want done to your body. Make sure > before anything is done, you know what the heck is going on! > Is your husband usually there with you when you see your doctor? I > would make doubly sure he’s there with me next time to make sure that > doc doesn’t bulldoze over your concerns. Ultimately, it’s your > decision. If that doc won’t tell you what’s going on, then get a second > opinion. JMHO > I hope all is going well with you and your family. Keep us posted! And > enjoy your crazy kids. :) Wouldn’t it be wonderful to have that much > energy again? > -Sharon
Well i am seeing the head doc on tuesday so i will find out what is going on! between my mom and hubby i always have someone there with me! do to past experances! so i will keep you all informed on what is going on i just a little worried! that is all i have been there many times and they are very good doc’s just the one i dont like ! and my doc down here wont see me anymore because i am so high risk! go figure! anyhow thank you and i will keep you all posted on what is what ! got to go daughter has ballet in the morning! Nite all and stay healthy!!
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Hello Trin, According to Shelagh’s web page, all pregnancies for Lupus patients are high-risk http://www3.telus.net/valleylupus/pregnancy.html The way to look at is, they’re not "taking your baby" but giving you and your baby a better chance and giving you your baby earlier. (as long as they have very good reasons to do so and it seems that just having Lupus is reason enough, but they may have more, see below). My brother’s daughter had her baby 10 weeks early (in October). We’re all very concerned. He’s so tiny and had to be sent to a different hospital for specialized care along with "Mom". Now he’s back in the town where they live but still in hospital, in an incubator, I think. At the moment, all I know is that he has jaundice (perhaps other stuff too, didn’t have good phone connection) and Dave is very worried. http://www.merck.com/pubs/mmanual_home/sec22/244.htm Medical Conditions Certain medical conditions in a pregnant woman may endanger her and the fetus. The most important are chronic high blood pressure, kidney disease, diabetes, severe heart disease, sickle cell disease, thyroid disease, systemic lupus erythematosus (lupus), and blood clotting disorders. (see page 1160 in Chapter 246, Diseases That Can Complicate Pregnancy) http://www.merck.com/pubs/mmanual_home/sec22/246.htm Systemic lupus erythematosus (lupus), (see page 231 in Chapter 51, Disorders of Joints and Connective Tissue) an autoimmune disease that’s nine times more common in women than in men, may appear for the first time, worsen, or improve during pregnancy. How a pregnancy will affect the course of lupus can’t be predicted, but the most likely time for flare-ups is immediately after delivery. Women who develop lupus often have a history of repeated miscarriages, midpregnancy stillbirths, fetuses whose growth is slow (intrauterine growth retardation), and premature delivery. A fetus or a newborn may be endangered by complications of the mother’s lupus, such as kidney damage, high blood pressure, or heart defects. The antibodies that produce problems in the mother may cross the placenta and produce a very slow heart rate, anemia, a low platelet count, or a low white blood cell count in the fetus. However, these antibodies gradually disappear over several weeks once the baby is born, and the problems they cause resolve. <snip> So now you know the risks and can ask relevant questions. I can only assume they’re making the best decision for you and/or your baby. I sure wish you had some assist with the day-to-day activities. If ever there was a time to put your feet up and let someone else take your daughter to ballet, it’s now !! (and you’ll really have a lot on your hands after the child-birth). Please try to find family/friends/community resources to help you through now and the next months. Just because things went smoothly other times, there’s no guarantee the same will happen this time. We sure hope so, but you gotta stop and TAKE CARE ! (sorry for the shouting, but the message hasn’t been getting through). Hugs J – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Trinity wrote: > Well the doc would like to take my baby three weeks earlier but wont > tell me why! i have asked and asked but no answers, they say she is > small! well all my kids have been on the small side! so i worried > hubby says ask again this next week and wait there until you get an > answer! so that is what i am going to do ! i dont like to be kept in > the dark abotu thing like this! well i should get going kids are on > fall break and driving me crazy!!! SMILE ALL Love Trin
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Well the doc would like to take my baby three weeks earlier but wont tell me why! i have asked and asked but no answers, they say she is small! well all my kids have been on the small side! so i worried hubby says ask again this next week and wait there until you get an answer! so that is what i am going to do ! i dont like to be kept in the dark abotu thing like this! well i should get going kids are on fall break and driving me crazy!!! SMILE ALL Love Trin
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Trinity wrote: > Well the doc would like to take my baby three weeks earlier but wont > tell me why! i have asked and asked but no answers, they say she is > small! well all my kids have been on the small side! so i worried > hubby says ask again this next week and wait there until you get an > answer! so that is what i am going to do ! i dont like to be kept in > the dark abotu thing like this! well i should get going kids are on > fall break and driving me crazy!!! SMILE ALL Love Trin
((((Trin and baby))))) I would demand an answer today! But that’s just me and my hot head.
You are your body’s keeper, and you and only you get to make choices for your own body’s health. Listening to doctors’ opinions is the best way to make those decisions, but if you don’t know what’s going on, then find out. Don’t let them bully you into doing what they think is correct, because they’re only human too, and all humans make mistakes and can maybe do something you didn’t want done to your body. Make sure before anything is done, you know what the heck is going on! Is your husband usually there with you when you see your doctor? I would make doubly sure he’s there with me next time to make sure that doc doesn’t bulldoze over your concerns. Ultimately, it’s your decision. If that doc won’t tell you what’s going on, then get a second opinion. JMHO I hope all is going well with you and your family. Keep us posted! And enjoy your crazy kids. :) Wouldn’t it be wonderful to have that much energy again? -Sharon — Clear your mind, relax and float downstream.
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